Our Children need us!

Good day wonderful people… Its a new week which brings with it refreshing activities and Projects or new avenues to conclude previous ones… We wish you great accomplishments in this week… Today, we’ll be identifying and narrating the necessities of role models in the lives of children as role models…
children need role modelsChildren look up to a variety of role models to help shape how they behave in school, relationships or when making difficult decisions. Children also look up to other relatives, teachers and peers. Children may try to copy the behavior and appearance of celebrities, such as athletes and entertainers, and characters from books, TV, movies and video games. Some parents may want to help their children choose positive role models.
mothers are the best role modelsIf you’re a parent and want to help your child identify a positive role model, some helpful suggestions for discussing role models with your child:

  • Have your child identify what qualities he/she admires in his role model
  • Give examples of people in your community who you feel have positive qualities and are a good influence on others
  • Talk about people you look up to for guidance and inspiration

Negative role models, however, may also influence children. Sometimes widely admired public figures can make poor personal choices. Young children may assume that the behaviors of negative role models are typical, safe and acceptable. Parents and caregivers can intervene by emphasizing that role models who embrace inappropriate behavior, violence, sexuality, race and gender stereotypes, and drug and alcohol abuse are not acceptable.

Some suggestions to help you talk to your child about role models who have made mistakes are:

  • Remind your child that all people have good and bad qualities and that anyone can make a mistake. Explain that it is important to apologize and to learn from our mistakes
  • Ask your child what he thinks of the role model’s behavior
  • Ask what he would have done differently in the situation
  • Give example of more positive and healthy ways to handle the situation

If you have concerns that your child is being negatively influenced by his role model, work with your child to identify more appropriate role models.

  • Encourage your child to become involved in activities that reflect your values, such as religious programs, athletics, after school programs, clubs and volunteering.
  • Remind your child that he or she does not have to do everything that the role model does. Your child can copy what he or she likes but still be him or herself.
  • Give examples of people in your community who you feel have positive qualities and are a good influence on others.

positive role modelsThis is not only applicable to parents and their children. We, the adults and elderly folks in the society have a duty to the young ones to guide them rightly, portray proper and rightful ways to live and be a dependable role model. The life of a child regardless of the financial buoyancy of that child is largely dependable on their association with the role models they establish around them.

Oby-Ezekwesilijoke silvaWe owe it to the society and the children to live right and according to justice, to care for them and show love and guidance to the misplaced youths and children of our immediate society.

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